darkness wrote:Seduced: Inside the NXIVM Cult is better than the The Vow and is mostly India telling her own story, which makes what they glossed over in the Vow seem like a trip to Disneyland. They just in the last episode got to Allison Mack finally. I think she is almost worse than Raniere is.
just finished
Seduced. i found it to be way more exploitative than
The Vow. everything about it felt gross. beyond what happened, which is obvious. i mean, it's very clearly too early for this girl to be trying to tell this story. she is still completely fucked up. felt like this was rushed to get out the door to capitalize on the current publicity, not because she wanted to tell her story. and she's married, a year after getting out? that poor dude. everything just highlights how sheltered, naive, privileged and rich this dunce is. i mean, she's clearly very well educated, but boy is she a dunce. i kept thinking, this is only one of his many, many victims. what about the ones that don't have unlimited money, a high-profile mom, and royal coffers to use? so many things in this felt extremely set up, like the group of victims speaking to law students, and her speech there read like a 3rd grader wrote it. again, i think she is beyond still fucked up from everything and shouldn't be doing this thing right now. she has years of attempting to heal ahead of her. i found
The Vow's over-arching, more broad take on the whole thing much better. gave a much more complete history of the dude and how he got to this point, as well as all of the countless hours (and life savings) a great many people put into trying to bring it down. a nice contrast to
Seduced, where catherine oxenberg is painted as the lone superhero causing it all to crumble because she went on TV. it also makes very clear how hurt and impacted so many people are, beyond the DOS members. yes, there were things - specific things - in
Seduced that i wish would have been included in
The Vow when it came to how exactly he was found and captured, the evidence used in court, etc., but i assume them not covering it in
The Vow was probably part of some deal made between them and oxenberg for her involvement, as i'm sure she wanted her daughter's thing to be successful. which is just another reason i felt gross about the whole thing. had she put it out, i don't know, five years from now, with some healing perspective added to the very fresh memories of what happened, maybe i would have felt differently about it. but watching her and her mom literally re-enact scenes where they had emotional confrontations or a thing happened for the camera was fucking disturbing.